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Wall Climbing soon

I can’t just wait like an idiot for others to make up their mind so I’m getting busy come March 24 with girl friends. The plan is wall-climbing. The price for whoever gets to the top first? According to racs, should be a kiss from the guy who is holding the harness. This should be interesting….
K

Do Filipino Women Masturbate?

I was curious so I decided to ask my Filipino girl friends if they masturbate. The girls were shock and even told me that it’s a bit vulgar to talk about such topic.  I was told that Filipina women are not likely to admit such things publicly because “the church will get mad” but they sure don’t seem to mind that men are a regular customer of such activity. Don’t you think it’s a bit screwed that women place rigid rules on themselves but quite lax with the opposite sex?

Anyway, here are two of my friend’s opinion about such topic:

32-year old married Angie:
“In Christian view, this is a sin. I read a passage in old testament, I think in the book of Joshua wherein it implies that masturbation is part of man’s impurities, his fallen nature. And he was not even allowed to join in God’s assembly if he will not be purified. But in our society, this is acceptable because of so called health benefits. For me my main reason why I will not masturbate because it is a sin, as a Christian I must respect my body as this is the temple of the Holy Spirit.”

30-year old single Babe:
I don’t masturbate. Not because I think this is a sin because we are all humans, not perfect. I’m not shy to confess to a priest if I will masturbate in the future because I even confessed about my first pre-marital sex last December 2011.

You might be wondering if I, being a Filipina woman myself, masturbate too? Hmm, Does Karlota masturbate? Yes or No. Can you guess the answer?

the art of waiting…

Ebyang: “Being single doesn’t mean your weak, it means that you are strong enough to wait for what you deserve”.
Karlota: But how do you know what you really deserve if you don’t have any experiences yet to compare on?
Gemma: Now that’s sad!
Ebyang: Nosebleeding here
Gemma: Watch out Ebyang because Karlota is very experienced already.
Karlota: Experience is the best teacher for me gwaps. Most often, you never know what you want until you’ve had it and then have it slip through your fingers.
Ebyang: Yes, Karlota is a teacher
Gemma: And who is the principal?
Angie: Karlota still.
Gemma: Yes, Karlota is multi-talented

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I hang out with idealistic romantic people. They believe that first boyfriend should be the only man in their life and that you’ll get married and live happily ever after. These women are 28 – 35 years old and most of them are still single and never had any boyfriends SINCE BIRTH.  What are they doing? They wait…. They believe that even if they are living in a cave, their soul mate will still find them just like in fairy tales. These women need to wake up I think.

The sad thing is that people with experiences are sometimes considered “a bad thing”.

Choosing a partner in life is like entering into a battlefield you know. But if they prefer staring at guys from movie or basketball games and subconsciously create this illusion or expectations that normal men can never match, well, it’s their choice.